Media personality formerly with Multimedia Group Limited, Nana Yaa Brefo has said Ghanaian women feign they love sex but the reality on the ground points to the opposite direction.
Making her submission in a recent interview on Neat FM, the ace broadcaster stated that men don’t know how to ‘hammer’ their wives well in bed which significantly affects their total wellbeing.
“In Ghana, a lot of women pretend to love sex but we don’t. We really don’t,” she said.
She continued; “It’s very difficult to talk about it so instead, the woman would rather raise her voice at you. As a man, you don’t give out home-keeping money, your sex game is weak and everyone is going on a trip to Dubai, you won’t also take your wife there.”
You suffer pre-ejaculation unnecessarily. How do you expect a woman to be happy with you?”
Shifting the conversation to domestic violence which has dominated the mainstream following the death of Nigerian singer Osinachi Nwachukwu, Nana Yaa Brefo said although she has not been beaten by any man, she has suffered a great deal of emotional torture in her previous marriage.
“I have never been physically beaten by any man, it’s not possible. but I have suffered emotional abuse. I always say that it is always what you give out that you receive. Our culture has trained men in a certain way and a woman in a certain way. If you’re in any way emotionally abused to the extent that it has brought down your self-esteem, flee from that relationship. It’s possible to leave,” she advised.
She concluded that “emotional abuse brings about conditions like stress and hypertension. You cannot be entirely truthful to a Ghanaian man because he will use it against you”.